That's an easy answer. You learn how to dump the black water tank and leave hubby at home...that's what I do.
Trust me on this. I've had to learn how to hook up electric, water, sewer, and dump. All of that is the easy part of RVing.
Shopping for the food, loading the food, getting the clothes ready, gathering all the electronic stuff, being sure all the bills are paid before leaving, stopping the newspaper and mail, unloading the RV back at home, doing all the dirty laundry....etc. That's the more time-consuming stuff.
But, if you can't learn to dump the black tank and hubby doesn't want to, I agree with your girlfriend...get a new hubby.
Good luck with your RV purchase!
Wherever the next year takes you...enjoy the ride
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2003 M-B Cruiser (Ms."B"Haven)
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