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 9/17/2009 12:44 PM
 

This has been a very busy couple of months. We found out on August 4, 2009 that Mom has Breast Cancer. It is muninous carcinomia of the breast. Due to the fact she didn't have health insurance she had put off going to the doctor for a couple of years. Yes, that is right, she was aware of this lump for a couple of years.

She finally agreed to see a doctor once she turned sixty-five and was eligible for medicare.
She had a mammogram done. We were told at the time it was most likely cancer. She was scheduled for a biopsy a few days later and it was confirmed. She had a golf ball size muninous carcinomia tumor. This is a rare type of breast cancer.

We didn't know what to do next, so we contacted the family doctor for a referral to a cancer surgeon. They were very quick to make the appointment and we were in the surgeons office within a few days.

We had no idea what we were doing. We just prayed that the good Lord would look after us and lead us in the right direction. Lead us he did!

We met the doctor that our family doctor had referred us to and found out he was an oncologist, not a surgeon. What! Not the surgeon! He did however, make us an appointment with a Breast Cancer Surgeon. One of the best in the Dallas area.

The following week we were at the surgeons office. He explained what he thought the best course of action was and made appointments for several test such as MRI, PET Scans, blood work and an appointment with the oncologist to schedule the chemotherapy. The surgeon explained that she needed chemo in order to shrink the tumor before the surgery.

A few days later we were in the office of the oncologist. After his examination he decided to consult with the surgeon. He ran downstairs to talk with the surgeon, while we had blood work done. They were in agreement that the surgery needed to come first. One of the concerns they both had was it appeared the cancer had also entered the breast tissue. This lump was protruding and looked as if it would rupture thru the skin any moment.

We were told to that the surgery would be schedule once the PET Scan results were back.

A few days later we were getting the PET Scan done. Mother doesn't like needles and didn't like getting the contrast IV. The PET Scan itself wasn't bad.

A week later we were in the surgeons office being told the PET Scan results were good and that there appeared to be no other cancer. Surgery was scheduled for the following morning. "The following morning!"! Mom was in shock. She is ready to get rid of the cancer, but completely unprepared for surgery so soon.

We had to run home and take care of a lot of things in order to get Mom ready. We needed to pack a bag for the hospital. We needed to pack a bag for her after surgery care at my house and we needed to get here house ready for my step father to handle by himself.

My sister stayed the night to help mom prepare and get her to the office for a contrast injection which was order for first thing the following morning. The injections had to be done two hours prior to surgery. It was something to do with the lymph nodes.

We all met at the hospital the following morning. Mom's surgery was scheduled for ten. There was a delay so surgery didn't happen until eleven. Mother was so nervous and just wanted to get it over with. She was in surgery about an hour and a half.

The surgeon came out and told us everything went fine and that the tumor had grown to the size of a tennis ball. That's right a tennis ball.

We were able to see her for a short time in recover before they moved her to a room. We were all so relieved that surgery went well but, were in shock that the mass had grown to the size of a tennis ball.

We spent the afternoon with Mom. She slept most of the day. My sister stayed the night at the hospital with her.

We returned the next morning to find Mom dressed and sitting on the side of the bed visiting with my sister. They both looked worn out. The nurses were taking care of a few things before releasing Mom from the hospital.

Mom was ready to go home so she could get some rest. She had a nurse at her bedside every hour asking her about her pain level and taking her vitals so she was tired.

We drove Mom to my house so we could help her and keep an eye on her. She has been doing great with the exception on a drain tube problem. She has been out walking along the driveway to keep her strength up and is complaining about being bored! LOL. She is a very independent woman and likes to do for herself. I just realized where I got it!!!!!!!

Please, Stay on top of the mamograms ladies.

I also wanted to say "THANK YOU" again for all the prayers.


Dawn & Denise from Fate,TX, HR Alumascape 5th Wheel & Chevy 3500 Truck cruzin2some.blogspot.com
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 9/17/2009 1:08 PM
 

Glad to hear things are moving quickly and that your Mom handled the surgery well. Have you heard about post surgery treatment yet? I was diagnosed in 89 had surgery and then chemo. Today, treatment is better because they can utilize treatment (chemo or radiation) that is more specific to the type of breast cancer diagnosed. I also was involved in Reach to Recovery thru the ACS which was great for me(I still have friends from then) and they also have assistance for the partners who have their own issues to deal with. It's great that you are around to help make things easier and doctors that you trust. Good luck and will be thinking of you. carold


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 9/17/2009 11:35 PM
 

Thanks for the update, Denise. I think that 90% of the battle with illness is attitude. It sounds like your mom has got a super attitude and is going to work hard at getting past this bump in the road.

Take care of yourself too, okay?

Laura -- and Jed


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 9/17/2009 11:46 PM
 

Denise, thanks for the update on your Mom. Please know that I care and my prayers are with you and your family. Our family has a propensitiy toward cancer, so I know your fear and pain....also your faith and tenacity.

God Bless All of You!!!

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 9/18/2009 11:36 AM
 

Thanks for the update on your Mom. What is so great about this forum is that all the sisters care about each other and what is happening in your life. I know this is a scary time for all of you and my thoughts are with you and your family. Your Mom has the right attitude.


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 9/18/2009 3:41 PM
 

Denise, I'm sorry your Mom has had to endure all that but glad she got in and had it removed before it got even bigger. Yikes!

Something like this is very stressful on the entire family. I'll certainly continue uplifting all of you to the Lord. Keep the faith, stay the course.

((((((((hugs))))))) Lenora

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 9/18/2009 4:48 PM
 

Denise - So glad that your mom got good treatment and that she was confident with her doctors. Still thinking of her and the whole family and lifting you all up in prayer. Keep the positive attitudes!!


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 9/18/2009 11:22 PM
 

so glad to hear that your mom had her surgery and that they got the cancer cell what a huge one!!! will there be other treatments or was the surgery all she will have todo...I understand not going to the dr due to no insureance but there are ways to get free mamograms and I am not telling you that to be critical to your mom we don't know how to find them usually but there are ways I don't have insurance either waiting for the magical age of 65 as well!!! but did have a free mamo in Quartzsite last spring and dailey I go into a breast cancer site click on the one spot and it counts towards women getting free momograms wish I could remember the sites name they send me a reminder each day and I just click on that If anyone knows the sites name post it again and we can all click daily and make it possible for more women to have the mamograms that they need

sheila

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 9/19/2009 9:14 AM
 

Glad to hear your Mom is doing well :) I trust that will be the end of it. That's a difficult thing to go through, but sounds like you all pulled together and got her through it just fine. You are all blessed to have each other.

Love,

Sharon


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 9/19/2009 9:10 PM
 

http://www.theanimalrescuesite.com/cl...

I know it says the animal rescue site but it is also the breast cancer site...along with other sites you can click to help.


Alice
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