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 4/14/2012 6:02 AM
 

We said goodbye to Les yesterday afternoon at 4:45. He died surrounded by his family as he wanted. After almost 7 months on hospice he lost his fight to live and fight he did right up to the end. I feel as though my heart has a huge hole in it right now. When you spend most of you life with the one you love your supposed to want what is best for him. I didn't want him to keep struggling to breath, but I so wish he had not had to leave me to find peace.

For those of you who are just starting this journey it will be the hardest and most rewarding job you will ever do. I promised him he would not have to go into an institution to die and I will never regret keeping him at home and taking care of him myself.

Deb


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 4/14/2012 10:09 AM
 

Deb, so very sorry for your loss. Please take care,

Linda


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 4/14/2012 10:19 AM
 

There just aren't words to tell you how sorry I am on your loss. Its been a long journey and now you've joined a sisterhood none of us want to belong too. Its a new life for you but there are many of us who are on that path and here to help in any way we can. Now it is time for you to take care of yourself. You've been beside Les and done all you could to make sure he was taken care of. Let the same be done for you and remember you are loved.


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 4/14/2012 1:33 PM
 

Deb, I am so sorry. Take care of yourself--- and know we are all here for you!!

Good job in fulfilling your promise to Les!!

Love,

Joella


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 4/14/2012 6:13 PM
 

Deb, I understand your mixed feelings so well. Now that Les has found his peace may you find peace for yourself.


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 4/15/2012 12:41 AM
 

Deb I'm so sorry to hear this. Its really hard to know what to say most of it's been said

just know that you are in my thoughts and prayers...May our Father in Heaven be with you

sheila

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 4/15/2012 9:38 PM
 

Just gonna give a a hug here....{{{{hugs}}}} take care of yourself and know that God will get you through it.


Alice
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 4/18/2012 4:39 PM
 

My sincere condolences to you and your family.


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